How Little We Know: A Memoir

On Writing Out Loud I’m posting my memoir-in-progress about my experience of mother/daughterhood, and here you’ll find out what I’m doing and why. By now I’ve pretty much finished writing the first draft of the first half, and I’ve decided to post a Table of Contents on this blog, so readers can click from here to read selected chapters. In addition to the chapters themselves, I’ve posted a few essays and poems relevant to the subject of mothers and daughters. I’ve also put up a few entries from my process journal–a kind of meta writing where I explore issues and feelings raised by the material.

In making my work public at such an early stage of its development, I’m taking a big risk. I’m doing so in order to break through the loneliness of the long-distance writer–after two years of almost daily blogging, I just couldn’t bear to go back to writing in isolation. A novel or memoir or any book-length project can take years to complete, and doing it alone makes me feel like I’m groping through silent darkness. Even though I haven’t gotten much feedback on the memoir, just knowing it’s being read, no matter if it’s only by a few people, helps to overcome that feeling.

Please, do consider using those comment boxes to let me know what you think of this memoir.

How Little We Know: Table of Contents

Introduction: The Myth of Demeter and Persephone

Chapter One: Click

Chapter Two: The Loneliness of the Invisible Daughter

Chapter Three: “I Thought You Were A Nice Girl!”

Chapter Four: Other Daughters

Chapter Five: A Smart, Funny, Joyful Lady

Chapter Six: Sisters I

Chapter Seven: Wicked Stepsisters

Chapter Eight: Stolen Daughters

Chapter Nine: Notes of a Writing Mother/Daughter

Essays

This I Believe

From Halloween to Valentines Day

On Friendship

On Grief

The Holy Agent

Poetry

Braiding My Daughter’s Hair

The Other Mother

Leaving/Letting Go (Prose Poem)

More Poems On Motherhood

Foreign Tongue

Process Journal

September 2007

October 2007

November 2007

December 2007

January 2008

February 2007

April 2008

May 2008

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